The approach taken with a couple is different from that taken with an individual person. My focus with couples is the dynamic between the two, rather than a focus on the one. I’m looking to see the patterns of interaction that have formed; how you work with, listen to, and calm/upset each other, and the ways in which your connection becomes ruptured. Confrontations are often necessary, and the emotional work can be harder when done in front of your partner, but please know, I have the skills, training and experience to support you through this.
My goal is to help you cultivate a secure-functioning relationship which incorporates the following principals:

• Provides safety and security
• Requires co-management (a.k.a. coregulation) of emotional states
• Is collaborative and cooperative
• Includes proper management of "the couple bubble"
• Exists due to a shared principal and vision that works equitably for both

In my work with couples I am highly influenced by Stan Tatkin, Esther Perel, EFT and Gottman. Whether you are seeking support for communication issues, infidelity (betrayal trauma), sexual dissatisfaction, loss, or parenting, these methods will ensure that you get a deeper understanding of what’s influencing the problem and effective ways to find the secure functioning and healing you long for in your relationship.